The rumor mill will kill you especially the social media side. The moment you change your relationship status.. or when they start noticing a lack of pictures of the two of you together. Today someone contacted my mother asking about the status of us two. Suggesting that I should have moved out of state with my husband, when he decided to attend pharmacy school out of state. Little did they know I was last to find out about his choice, and I was never included in his choices. I did not feel like I should sacrifice everything for someone that couldnt even consider me, husband or no husband. I knew being alone with him out of state would be a lonely journey that I was not willing to take. It just wasnt worth it to me. And the sad thing is that in my case, we had been having issues since our first year, by the time he decided to move, our relationship was already dead. I guess desperate chicks are supposed to eat,breath,sleep and live for their husbands.. but honestly I have always been very concerned with my own personal aspirations. I watched many of my parents friends sacrifice their lives for the betterment of others whilst their dreams died... I vowed to never do the same.But that is the part they don't know and would never have the heart to ask you.. so they go on with their chatters.. and it is both embarrassing, and angering. Do prepare.
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