Thursday, January 12, 2017

Day 78

I think I have given my divorce enough time and reflection...so this blog is officially done :-) Time to really move on and close this chapter.

Day 77

The holidays are so terrible for the first few years, but you really have to figure out how to not let your ex ruin your life even after they are gone. Sometimes it may be necessary to withdraw from the reminders like social media for awhile. Make new memories with new people, don't withdraw and isolate yourself. Make sure as they have moved on, you learn how to as well.

Day 76

Whenever you look into the abyss it always looks back. Today I was cleaning out my email box, and ran across a flurry of old emails from my ex.. it stung me. The reality is no matter how much time goes by... the pain comes back with memories... especially happy memories. The emails were littered with smiley faces, lol and happy times... smh a far cry from how it all ended.