There is a point in which you will stop being the victim. You will stop letting your (ex)spouse have so much power in your life. Unfortunately the time in which you determine this can fluctuate between months and years depending on you. Perhaps it is the fact that my breakup and everything is happening around the new year that helped me reach that point. I decided that I will move on and leave my fate in the hands of the Lord. If his will be that my husband and I will reconcile, I will let God deal with it, but as for me, I will move on and focus on God and my personal progress. I will not beg my husband to reconsider, I will not cry. I will not expect more from him than he can ever give. He is simply a man and God is greater... no need to invest so much hope in another human.. After all there are plenty to go around. Whoever came with the idea that there is only one love for you is crazy, there are clearly more than one man to every woman.
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