Access your level of communication. is it an area that you can improve upon. To be honest communication was a consistent issue with my spouse and I, I didn't want to make him look bad to his family either so I held back on talking to them too about issues we were having. By the time i brought them to their attention, things had become very strained in the house. I recommend addressing issues early on, when you start to notice them. If you are unsuccessful communicating directly with their mate, enlist the help of a close friend or family member that perhaps knows better ways to communicate with them. This is especially important in African relationships. Often including them can help greatly in getting everyone on the same page. Don't abuse it though, use it as a last resort to a dire situation.
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