It is important to heal as much as you can. Do not ignore the reality of your divorce.. Do not ignore how it makes you feel. Do not pretend your not sad,devastated,hurt or angry... Hash it out so that you may begin the healing process. In my case i took several months to deal with the disappointment of my ex leaving me. I pondered over the why and how as it continued to evade me. Fortunately I'm very in tune with myself. I try to look at things logically and not internalize things too much. My ex was just a man... capable of all sorts of disappointments. He was a quitter.. because he rather leave than try to sort things out. He was weak, a liar, and a cold hearted individual. I was certainly not innocent, but I'm still no comparison for him. All of this transition took place for me in the fall. As someone who often self reflects and looks for improvement, the onset of my birthday and a new year often brings about a severe reflection. I decided that I would not take my sorrow for my ex into the new year, and that's exactly what I did. I decided that I would not squander time thinking of someone who didn't think or worry about me. It hurt me how he never called to check up on me. He never even called on our anniversary or holidays. He is the most callous person I have ever met, but I'm moving on. Life does go on.
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